The Asprey Family Tomb
As you walk around the churchyard at St Mary's, you can't help but wonder, "who were all these people", and "how did they live their lives?". Some belong to the many local families whose descendants still live in the area: others came to Caterham during the late Victorian era when, once the railway arrived, it became fashionable to live on the North Downs -
One of these prosperous businessmen was Charles Asprey, the Bond Street Jeweller, who came to Caterham in the 1860's and lived in Stafford Road.
Charles was born in Mitcham in 1813; it was here that his grandfather William had founded the family firm in l781. He married Jessy Davies in 1843, and they had seven children but only three were to survive infancy. Jessy sadly died in 1858 and in 1873 Charles married Rose Bridee. He owned a lot of land in Caterham Valley, and he became a great benefactor to the community. As he had attended the temporary church in Clareville Road, he gave money towards the building of St John's Church, and he became its first churchwarden.
In 1890 he donated the Drinking Fountain which originally stood on what is now the roundabout in Station Avenue. It was removed to White Knobs Sports Ground in 1933 and it now takes pride of place in Church Walk. Charles was also a founding director of the Caterham and Kenley Gas Company, who provided the gas for the original lamp, which was on top of the fountain.
Charles Asprey died in 1892 aged 78 and is buried in the imposing family tomb, which is situated by the Church Hall.
Sources: Duck, Margaret; "Charles Asprey & His Fountain" (Local History Records Vol. 30, 1991)
On the north side of the tomb, facing the Church Hall,
the following inscription can be found in the middle panel
On the other side of the tomb, are inscriptions to his first wife
Jessy and their children who, according to the inscription,
were placed in the tomb in 1880 after being removed
"from the Catacombs in Norwood Cemetery"
To the memory of
The beloved second wife of
Who died at Caterham
Febry 6th 1879, aged 54 years
Also of the above
Who died Febry 11th 1892 aged 78 years.